that’s why you should never break up w/ a guy who’s trying to become a bboy..like im doing lmao jking
you’ll never know where they’ll end upp~~ hahaa

but i really wish i could date changmin, he’s my second favorite

Oh~ if I dated Changmin, I would do so many unmentionables. Heeeheeheehehee >}
the POSSIBILITIES.

i told him not to talk about our relationship anymore & just move on already!

i didn’t date him but I know her.

in fact she’s sitting in my kitchen right now…keeping my sprite nice and cool. she can make ice you know. amazing.

i cant believe he lied all these 5 years in all the interviews where they asked him if he had ever had a gf/first love!! he was supposed to be the only member who hasnt!
heartbrokennnnnnn
(i sound so fangirly)

SIGH…the baby has grown up. Now…the question is…did your parents know this? LMAO

NOOO baby it was supose to be me your first and last TTT_TT

@heliomax
hahha that was so funny

jp. gawwwwwdd he’s like a baby compared to me.

omigosh, she’s so lucky. i cannot imagine how cute changmin on a date. he’s just too adorable. uuuuu..i want to date him.hihi.
i just found out that he was born on feb ‘88, i though he was an 89-er. this is just perfect! i was born on april ‘88. yay!!!!

@heliomax
XD ooohhh scandalous! I think I remember seeing those two in a picture together somewhere. He looked pretty protective of her… or maybe he was just hungry.

Changmin is cute and all, but he’s also… kind of… weird. I can’t place why, exactly, but something’s just off. Or maybe I’m the one who’s weird, saying all that while fans could be looking!!

so wait… he’s lied… all these years???

WHAT?!!! and i was, thinking that it WASN’T so rare to find a guy that’s never dated before… changmin, WHY?!! you could’ve just told the truth from the beginning instead of leading us little lambs astray!

Not a celeb? yeah.. but it can be someone from the industry right? the one at the behind the scene people??

I don’t think it’s necessary to reveal that one.. it’s kinda boring..

I wonder if this was before or after he got obsessed with the actress Han Ga In.

oooh, good for him!
kinda shattered my fantasies of me being his first gf though.
hehe…

@heliomax
lol! that is sooo true!

haha i wish (:

I didn’t date Changmin, BUT I did date Yoochun in many of my fantasies… and let’s just say that always end up x-rated. XD

Oh how I wish I was that lucky girl.
I’d date him any day.

@ Lea: Agreed, but the main character is changed to Changmin
@ it’sme: me too lol

Too bad, my fantasy of being his first girlfriend is gone! R.I.P. fantasy.

;___; time to land on earth.

Good for Changmin. He actually had time to date someone hope he gets a new girlfriend soon if he doesn’t already have one…but I think its me LOL sorry that slipped out.

@hellomax: LOL.

Someone is being brave. Minnie had a girlfriend, great. Now to get Leader - shii to reveal if he likes Jae. That boy stares at JJ too much. I would if I were him.

Hey think of it this way

they say that it’s HIGHLY UNLIKELY for one to marry their first love (junsu said it was beautiful how first loves never last but you always remember them) or first Girlfriend. So now…….US FANGIRLS have a chance to be with him forever!!! lol but only one lucky ones does

Wow. I found out about this yesterday, and it’s still pretty jaw dropping to me. It’s not shocking that he dated a girl. I mean LOOK AT HIM! He’s so handsome. But, what I’m shocked at, is the fact that he lied about it and kept a secret it for all these years. Why? That’s what I want to know -.- It kindof pisses me off! Lol. I always thought he’s never had his first kiss, and he’s never dated, and all this time……*sulks*

^^^

Same =/ What upsets me is the fact that he lied about it all these years… how did he do that? xD Cassie usually find out EVERYTHING that goes on with the boys lol I guess if this happened when they were less popular though it could have just slipped without anybody noticing. *sigh* All this time & I thought he still hadn’t had his 1st kiss… or 1st love/girlfriend for that matter

Well I am a Changmin fan…and at first I liked the notion that he was innocent and fresh. I am a noona so I thought it was cute but now he’s a man and has got some experience or “got game”. Also…i always wondered how he could have so much inspiration to write lyrics for songs about love without any experience. Yay for Changmin…. but he really didn’t have to lie about it…..He’s been saying that he has never had a gf or a first kiss for the longest time. Anyway… now I don’t feel guilty about having dirty thoughts.

Nah, I couldn’t have…

I was with Micky hahahaha!

Very smart of him to hide her identity. It also shows that he still cares ^^

@heliomax : ROFLROFL. i reckon.

Ah it’s possible to date w/o having to kiss AND having her as his gf. Right? Lol please help me to not let go of my fantasy of being his first love T.T
Darn that lucky bastard.

What I want to know is, why did he lie about this for so long?
He must have REALLY not wanted anyone to know about her.
Like, 5 years worth of lieing. Why confess now? -_-

“I’ve never had a first love before…
I’ve never even had a girlfriend.”

Well, apparantly you did Changmin.
Apparantly you did.

yea, its kindof strange how he kept it secret. but i agree with kay on the fact that he is a little weird. anyone else think so? lol.

i think he didn’t mean to hide this secret.
i was that feeling where it may not be what you’d call a real relationship.
that ambiguous feeling, the awkwardness during the relationship and after the break up, you’ll look back and realize that it wouldn’t be like other typical sweet and cute relationship.
i don’t know how to put it in words.
i suppose he didn’t want to reveal it back then because people will naturally dig in for more information and now, he can just say, “i don’t really remember…”

still, he’s cute as always.

Oh yeah, I totally dated Changmin. Unfortunately, he was so cute I went into a comma for so many years and only woke up till recently (his cuteness re-awoke me).

LOL, I wonder how their relationship was like, it must have been cute and sweet since Changmin’s relationship would seem like that X3

But oh gosh, I’m thinking now that after some writers get a hold of this there will fan fictions about this relationship XD

wouldn’t date him even if i got paid.. he yells too much..rofl
but i gotta admit he is adorable..but the yelling and ugly face just doesn’t work for me…

well we all know, im not the one…

-_-lll

…..
*faints*
he just lost his reputation.
i seriously thought that he was the innocent baby boy with no gf.
he lied for all these years?
shame on min min.
but oh well,
thats in the past.
i stil love min min now~~!!
hope that all his fans will continue supporting him,
even though this is very dissapointing news to many ==

he looks hideous in that picture.

OMG
after all dese years of thinking changmin is an innocent angel hu neva have a GF b4, i feels chills down my back. Wonder how many more secrets DBSK have ==”

I love how having a girlfriend is some horrible thing. It’s natural. I think him being alone his whole life to please his possessive “fans” would be much more disappointing.

Oh come on! He has his own reason as to why he had been keeping it as a secret. Don’t go around saying how disappointed you are because he ‘lied’. It’s not even a nice word to begin with *sighs. Who knows maybe he was way too innocent back then, hence not realising that ‘meeting a girl’ is in actual fact; a date. Yeah you know how changmin was during hug era… sucha kid. An adorable kid, i mean.

awww….well, i knew that the dbsk boys must’ve date at least once before coming big. (since they’re so cute and everything)
well, if the girl who dated chang min does come forth, don’t worry, we won’t bash you. (or at least, i won’t.)
and i agree with cass, yeah, he was a naive little boy back then…(he even said it himself, from one of the talk shows, can’t remember where)….
anyways, it’s from the past now. chang min is still chang min.

I WOULD DATE CHANG MIN IN A HEARTBEAT! MARRY HIM, AND HAVE A FAMILY. lol jk But I really like Chang Min. omg, it was a lie? Chang Min has had a gf? bad and good news. Good news b/c she wasn’t famous, so I might have a chance….” XD lol yeah right I wish. It’s all good though I forgive him, I just wanna know why he lied about it lol ah, maybe to keep that “cute and innocent” image that Junsu stole! XD lol

I’ve known of this before (don’t know the girl, but I knew that he was dating someone)… and I was just waiting for Changmin to admit. I’m glad he did.
All of them dated before anyway. xD Chun and Jaejoong still go out on dates. They’re boys, after all.

…was it really that important for us fangirls to know if he had a girlfriend or not? What if he was instructed to say that he has always been single? What if he just simply DID NOT WANT people to know about his private life? This is why people shouldn’t always feel like ‘they know’ their favorite artists. Because they don’t. All this accomplishes is that it would make you expect so much from them and they just might end up disappointing you.

I know you like feeling ‘really close and tight’ with these boys, because at times they do share their life with fans… but don’t. Don’t expect so much honesty…they don’t really have that kind of responsibility towards you, as much as you would love them to have it.

I think Changmin confessed about it now because he thought people were already mature and would take it, understanding things from HIS SIDE as well. Apparently (yes, with an ‘E’) not.

silly me thinking “yeah I’ll be ur first!!!!!” xD but I knew it, c’mon…just LOOK at HIM..-even if that picture is not a good one- …ohhhh minnie WHY??????

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I was rather quite shock when I heard the news considering he insisted for 5 years? that he never had one… so I’m kind of disappointed he “lied”, not that it makes a difference, since the other members said they had one before. I guess he was worry about his innocent image being completely wipe out XD

I just hope the girl he dated really liked him, and not used him for fame or popularity (or some other form of merit) since he did date when he debuted, and we all know how fast their popularity grew when they debuted =P

And as far as I’m concerned, I think Changmin’s FIRST KISS was given to the cat/kitten in the Hug MV XDDDD

kinda jaw dropping but i’ve always thought it was weird…. probably they told him not to cuz he was the maknae back then and still is and he had to keep that innocent concept

good for him. but kinda embarassing how he told everyone, how he never had a girlfriend and such. i mean, privacy is a must if you’re in a boyband. but he could’ve just keep quiet about everything instead of pretending, he never dated before…

ah…it’s shocking…but I’m so happy…like really happy…and here I was wishing for him to have a gf when he already had one!!!! because you know…we all knew that he didn’t have a gf yet and he’s already 20…that’s kind of sad…but then he already had one which makes me really happy!!!

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okay, okay, i’ll come clean,
it was me !!!!

okay, its wasnt me, but
damn, i would LOVE to date Minnie any day!
the other members say he hasnt had a girlfirend…:XXXX

TVXQ<3

…when was the last time he actually said he’s never had a girlfriend? Was it recent? Or years ago. O_O Because if it was years ago, it just might’ve been true that time.

He didn’t date just AFTER he debuted (meaning during HUG era). He just said that he started dating after debut, and never had a girlfriend prior to that.

Someone clear this up please.

lol he’s DATED before but he never said he never dated, he said he never had a girlfriend.Theres a difference. And the last time he said that he’s never had a girlfriend was back in their Hug days lol

And his first kiss was stole by JJ…in a car…while he was sleeping LOL

baby needs some chapsticks =]

Haha, the age-old issue of privacy versus public life rears its ugly head again!

I must say I don’t blame the fans for feeling ‘cheated’ since well, the boys always project this image of your guy-next-door. But then that’s probably Father SM’s evil plan more than theirs so ladies ~ you can stop saving your first kiss for this man! XP

After debut, huh. That means he could be dating someone right now. And people, dating does not mean that he had an actual girlfriend. A first love could mean someone he really loved, and maybe did not have a serious relationship with.

Fangirls need to calm down. I love DBSK to death but they deserve to have girlfriends, too. It’s their personal life and they don’t have an obligation to reveal anything to fans.

Okay, honestly? I think this is a lie. Ha, think realistically (spelling?) about it. Why would he decide to tell everyone about this NOW?

I look it it this way, Changmin is a man now. A 20 year old, and I don’t know about you, but I have seen and heard things, rumors if you will…about him being gay. And the main thing that I ALWAYS see it “Changmin must be gay because he’s 20 and he’s never even had a girlfriend!!”

I think Changmin said this, just to seem more manly to fit their new manly image, and to not seem gay. I really doubt that Changmin EVER dated anyone before. I just can’t see that happening. Have you seen him around girls? He’s a wreck.

So, If I had to say something, I would deff say that, he’s lieing right now…..or else, he proably would have said something about this myetery girlfriend years ago.

Just a guess.

Hmmm, Rachel has a point. That did cross my mind.
But whatever the case, people really shouldn’t be thinking too muhc into this. My one friend who was OBSESSED with Min now hates him because in her mind he “lied to her” for 5 years. Is that ridiculous or what? I can see how someone would be upset. I know some girls who were like “I will be Changmin’s first girlfriend, and I will be his first kiss” And well….now that fantasy is crushed. Lol. IF, he REALLY did have a gf back in the day.

I don’t know. Something is just odd about this story ;DDD

THAT LYING SON OF A B—-

hahaha i believed him when he said he never had a girlfriend T.T

oh well

good thing hes my 5th favorite XDD

how ppl who call fan can hates him!!??
maybe ppl is so naive u.u

changmin i will support you forever n.n

Someone mention above that Yoochun and Jae Joong still go out to date now. Gosh! If it is true, they are so so so amazing. They deserve to be called Gods. With such busy schedule they still have spare time to date. Not mentioning that they have tons of stalkers and they need to keep their girlfriends in secrets. And to be honest I feel so sorry for their girlfriends. They can’t go out with their boyfriends. Even if they do, they must do it in secret as if they commit crime.

I do feel angry towards Changmin. He does break my heart. He should tell us he dated someone. He shouldn’t have told us that he has never had a girlfriend before. Or they dated but they didn’t consider each other girl/boy friend? I am not Korean. But I think it ’s so weird.

Ahahaha, I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t disappointed at first, but I mean seriously, good for him. ^^ and it’s great that he didn’t give away who it was.

now, however, i must move in to meet him so I can be the second… ahahahaha, jk. I would love to get to know Changmin, though.

Anyway it doesnt really matter whether he lied or not,he’s juz trying to protect her identity.I admire him for that.And so it means JAejo0ng didnt steal his first kiss.Aww..Changmin is still that innocent but grown man now.